How the Pandemic is Changing How We Love: A Selection from Nicholas A. Christakis’s Apollo’s Arrow (2020)

“To some extent, disasters can amplify romantic feelings because of a phenomenon known as the misattribution of arousal, in which people confuse emotional stimulation or even physical danger for a state of romantic arousal. . . . They tend to hasten happy couples to increase their commitment and nudge unhappy ones to part ways.”—Nicholas A. Christakis

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Safe Spaces for Reason

Thinking that a better version of the same argument will get through to someone who is momentarily blinded by fear or rage is like thinking that a louder version of the same question will get through to someone who doesn’t speak English.

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Who’s Retweeting You?: A Selection from Nicholas A. Christakis’s Apollo’s Arrow (2020)

As Nicholas A. Christakis rightly observes in Apollo’s Arrow (2020), many of you are getting played by our enemies. Many of you are useful idiots. And you’re probably not as popular on Twitter as you think you are: “analysis of two hundred million tweets about the pandemic collected from January through May 2020 found that 62 percent of the top one thousand retweeters were bots.”

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The Real Woman’s Club

Although I’m super happy with how the election turned out, an uncomfortable thought occurred to me as I was watching PBS’s tearful celebration of Kamala Harris’s numerous glass-ceiling breakthroughs: Would they be celebrating her thus if she was a Republican?

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John Faithful Hamer
Sightseeing in a War Zone: A Selection from Mike Spencer Bown’s The World’s Most Travelled Man (2018)

“Inscriptions on limestone slabs have yielded to deciphering scholars; they boast of the ancient king’s war crimes: ‘Many of the captives I have taken and burned in a fire. Many I took alive. From some I cut off their hands to the wrists, from others I cut off their noses, ears and fingers; I put out the eyes of many of the soldiers. I burned their young men, women and children to death.’”—Mike Spencer Bown

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Tolerance

Tolerance is but one of the virtues in the constellation of virtues that illuminate the night sky of the good life. If your moral compass is to be of any use, you’ll need to look up and see them all.

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Why Not Get It Over With?: A Selection from Nicholas A. Christakis’s Apollo’s Arrow (2020)

“It’s ludicrous to compare Sweden to the United States. The former is a country of 10.2 million people with a cradle-to-grave social-welfare system, relatively few health problems . . . and a rule-abiding, collectively oriented citizenry. None of this resembles the United States, whose citizens have vastly higher rates of poverty, poor health, and other risk factors.”—Nicholas A. Christakis

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Feeling Apocalyptic

As I walk through empty streets, playing Will Smith in a low-budget Québécois remake of I Am Legend, entitled I Am Social Distancing, I find that I really miss all the people of Old Earth.

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John Faithful Hamer