“We don’t need to be pampered, or lectured, or adored. We’re not goddamn babies anymore. We just want to be manipulated with a little fucking consideration.”—Tony Hoagland
Read MoreTake it from someone who narrowly dodged a coronavirus bullet on Canadian Thanksgiving, celebrating American Thanksgiving with an in-person gathering isn’t worth the risk.
Read More“To some extent, disasters can amplify romantic feelings because of a phenomenon known as the misattribution of arousal, in which people confuse emotional stimulation or even physical danger for a state of romantic arousal. . . . They tend to hasten happy couples to increase their commitment and nudge unhappy ones to part ways.”—Nicholas A. Christakis
Read MoreThinking that a better version of the same argument will get through to someone who is momentarily blinded by fear or rage is like thinking that a louder version of the same question will get through to someone who doesn’t speak English.
Read More“When I get hopeless about human life, which, to be frank, is far too difficult for me, I try to remember that in the desert there is a little butterfly that lives by drinking urine.”—Tony Hoagland
Read MoreAs Nicholas A. Christakis rightly observes in Apollo’s Arrow (2020), many of you are getting played by our enemies. Many of you are useful idiots. And you’re probably not as popular on Twitter as you think you are: “analysis of two hundred million tweets about the pandemic collected from January through May 2020 found that 62 percent of the top one thousand retweeters were bots.”
Read MoreAlthough I’m super happy with how the election turned out, an uncomfortable thought occurred to me as I was watching PBS’s tearful celebration of Kamala Harris’s numerous glass-ceiling breakthroughs: Would they be celebrating her thus if she was a Republican?
Read MoreAll of those great things you’ve heard about The Queen’s Gambit: they’re true.
Read More“Inscriptions on limestone slabs have yielded to deciphering scholars; they boast of the ancient king’s war crimes: ‘Many of the captives I have taken and burned in a fire. Many I took alive. From some I cut off their hands to the wrists, from others I cut off their noses, ears and fingers; I put out the eyes of many of the soldiers. I burned their young men, women and children to death.’”—Mike Spencer Bown
Read MoreTolerance is but one of the virtues in the constellation of virtues that illuminate the night sky of the good life. If your moral compass is to be of any use, you’ll need to look up and see them all.
Read More“We cannot beat the virus with silence or with lies. Only truth and a megaphone help in such fights.”—Nicholas A. Christakis
Read More“I would implore everybody who’s celebrating today to remember it’s good to be a humble winner. Remember when I was here four years ago? Remember how bad that felt? Well, half the country feels that way right now.”—Dave Chappelle
Read More“One thing that Trump never communicates, and cannot possibly communicate, is a sense of his moral superiority. The man is totally without sanctimony.”—Sam Harris
Read More“It’s ludicrous to compare Sweden to the United States. The former is a country of 10.2 million people with a cradle-to-grave social-welfare system, relatively few health problems . . . and a rule-abiding, collectively oriented citizenry. None of this resembles the United States, whose citizens have vastly higher rates of poverty, poor health, and other risk factors.”—Nicholas A. Christakis
Read More“Because being a man was finally just too sad—in spite of the perks, the lifetime membership benefits; and it got old, telling the joke about the hooker and the priest at the company barbeque.”—Tony Hoagland
Read More“If he could only show a part of what he feels when he finds out he is not a thousand miles from home. That he will not have to go into the country of desire alone.”—Tony Hoagland
Read More“People with many connections . . . tend to be infected earlier in the course of an epidemic than random people chosen from the same population. Because of their many social interactions, popular people have an increased risk of exposure.”—Nicholas A. Christakis
Read More“Language uses us the way that birds use sky, the way that seeds and viruses braid themselves into a mammal’s fur and hitchhike toward the future. When you say a word, you enter its vocabulary.”
Read MoreAs I walk through empty streets, playing Will Smith in a low-budget Québécois remake of I Am Legend, entitled I Am Social Distancing, I find that I really miss all the people of Old Earth.
Read More“It is autumn here. The defoliated trees look frightened at the edge of town, as if the train they missed had taken all their clothes. The whole world in unison is turning toward a zone of nakedness and cold. But me, I have this strange conviction that I am going to be born.”
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